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  • I'm pretty sure I lost literally all my bravery about coming out as trans in real life thanks to my unsupportive parents.
    Sneaker
    Sneaker
    :( do you have a local lgbt group? I have one it saved my life & self esteem
    Ghostgirl
    Ghostgirl
    @Princess of Tennis I wish I did. My dad offered to find one like a year ago but nothing came of that.
    Ray Trace
    Ray Trace
    Abusive parents are so miserable to live with. No matter what they say, they're one of many old farts who don't know a thing or two about what transgenderism really is about.
    Are there any transitioned trans people that would want to help me out? I still have pretty much no idea what transitioning entails so drop me a message on here or Discord if you can provide that information for me.
    Adult Sweetie Belle
    Adult Sweetie Belle
    I know some trans people and I am friends with a LOT of LGBTQ+ people so I can tell you some stuff

    Basically a transition has two elements to it: social and medical

    A social transition means changing social elements of your life to conform to your social gender identity. This may include, but is not limited to, changing your name, changing your official gender, presenting as (in your case) a girl (through hairstyles, clothing, and makeup for instance), asking people to use your preferred name and pronouns, maybe toilets/changing rooms too if you wish.

    A medical transition means altering your body using hormones and/or surgery to conform to your bodily sex identity. For MTFs the main parts of this would be antiandrogens, estrogens, bottom surgery, some also elect for breast augmentation surgery, facial feminisation surgery, chondrolaryngoplasty, and voice feminisation sugery. A lot of this stuff can be quite difficult or expensive or irreversible so I'd take things slowly unless you're absolutely sure of what you want. I don't know how old you are or how far your body has gone down male puberty yet but if you have not yet finished male puberty you may wish to consider taking puberty blockers to pause/prevent future effects of male puberty if you feel you may wish to start HRT later. This decision is very much a personal one, for some transitioning medically may be essentially mandatory, for others they are perfectly able to live happy lives with only a social transition.

    Any questions just ask 🙂
    Ghostgirl
    Ghostgirl
    @Starfire I'm 17, going to be 18 in two months and I'm pretty sure puberty is generally like, 13-15 or 16 so I think I'm decently past that.

    The rest of the post was really helpful even though there's a lot of long words that my sleepy mind didn't completely understand, but I did screenshot it since I'm sure I'll make use of it.
    Adult Sweetie Belle
    Adult Sweetie Belle
    There are still some considerable advantages to starting now as opposed to in a decade as you are still very young and have a good chance (though it is important to remember, not a certain one) to feminise really well under HRT.

    I'm happy to clarify anything if you wish
    Hot Shingles in Your Area Are Looking to Get Laid.

    -a real billboard in the town next to the one I live in
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    Ray Trace
    Ray Trace
    wtf???
    Flora Bismarck
    Flora Bismarck
    Oh God. I hope it isn't talking about the virus. And they are not hot. Seriously, who in their right minds do an ad like that?!
    Shaggy Rogers
    Shaggy Rogers
    It took me about two minutes to realize that this was talking about an Ad for a roofing company.
    What if I took your profile picture and modded that in as a real battle portrait for Smash Ultimate
    I just realized I have to stay up until 1:00 AM on New Year's Eve if I really want to wish my boyfriend happy new year and tell him I love him as the first thing I say to him in the new decade.
    What's a sleep schedule and who needs it?
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    Sneaker
    Sneaker
    same =.= the joy of waking up every half hour and my dog who sleeps on my bed with me and him grumbling at me for waking him every time XD
    Why is the Tetris 99 soundtrack so good? It's a Tetris game, it has no right to bump so hard.
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    Ray Trace
    Ray Trace
    Wait, Tetris always had a great soundtrack, though. You really can't go wrong with classic Russian folk songs. :)
    SiFi
    SiFi
    Sneaker
    Sneaker
    I felt so much euphoria when I reached the Ancient Tetris stage in Tetris DS, because of the music
    "I have a son. I don't have a daughter." -my mom
    "Well..." -me, mentally
    Celia
    Celia
    I have no idea why transaphobes even think it matters, oh gosh, you got to call someone something different, if you're that lazy and stubborn, if you don't support your offspring being themselves, why have a child instead of just buying a puppet?
    Sneaker
    Sneaker
    I've noticed this as a common trend of transphobic parents to stubbornly choose to misgender their trans children, in a rather deluded nostalgic spite.
    I swear to God, if my mom hurts me again on Christmas this year, I'm going to lose it.
    Turns out my mom just doesn't know what the trans flag is. She called me brave for wearing a heart on my hoodie but thankfully she doesn't know what it is.
    Celia
    Celia
    That's a relief, keep on going strong
    Sneaker
    Sneaker
    I suppose in some cases Ignorance really can be Bliss, ha-ha! 😅

    Hope your day goes good! <3
    if it doesn't, you're always welcome to spend it here. ..I'll be around ^ w ^
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