"Ha ha, we'll FORCE you to keep living in the life you detest and see no enjoyable or redeeming qualities to by outlawing any less painful method of suicide" is a broken and sickening way to make someone stay alive.
I think the problem here is you're looking at it as outlawing
anything, when in reality it's simply not legalizing a method and making it something that doctors have to do unless it is considered absolutely necessary. I also said earlier that I am not in favor of outlawing suicide period; I just don't think it should be encouraged with an actual, legal method through the state.
(I'll clarify that I have lots of problems with the legal system in its current state and I would not support anything that encourages punishment of marginalized groups, which outlawing suicide certainly would as many of those with suicidal ideation are within minority groups. There is a very big difference between "I wouldn't legalize this one thing that would push doctors to do something traumatic to wash the government's hands of doing things that actually help people" and "I want to make suicidal people suffer by punishing them for desiring hurting themselves". My argument is the former, not the latter. I don't believe that suicidal people deserve punishment, and I want this to be understood, because some of your replies have made me feel as though you think that I do.)
As for why I made that comment about suicide helplines being pointless, it is just that many suicidal people do not care about just hearing yet another ineffective and incompetent person say, "well that's not great" and "no one would want you to be depressed"; my point was I think you overestimate how many people who want to end their own lives would call a helpline as they know it is not great anyway. They might want to tell other people about their problems, or suicide hotlines about their problems, but they know both will be just as bad as the other.
How effective suicide helplines are wasn't my point, though. My point was that often times suicidal people won't go to
anybody. One of the arguments made in favor of legalizing euthanasia suggested the idea that doing so would bring more people to come into the office and reconsider their decision, thus saving lives. What I was suggesting was that it sounds nice in theory, but I don't think that would work in practice.
If people wanted to risk being talked out, they would go to other people. But a lot of suicidal people
don't want to risk being talked out of it. So they won't, and that includes to doctors with whom they'd have to go through a lengthy process to be killed by them so the doctor is not held legally responsible.
And once again, I reiterate: if the problem is the efficacy of suicide helplines, the proposed solution to it should
not be encouraging people to hurt themselves, it should be looking to alternative methods to help these people. I am not arguing that suicide helplines are helpful as they currently are. I'm mostly suggesting that if the idea for the legalization is so people will come to doctors, thus leading them into a process of being talked out of suicide, that isn't going to work out very well long term with what we know about suicidal people. If anything, you should be agreeing with this point as you're suggesting over and over that our mental health care is pretty bad, so why would it be any better if we're forcing suicidal people to go through a process to be able to do it, and doctors to enact that process?
To me, it feels like your thought process is going like this:
You recognize our mental health care is bad. You recognize suicide helplines don't help people as much as they should, and that people are having a hard time and want to die.
...so your solution is to make it so they will die, but it's government controlled.
To me, this is skipping a lot of steps and other solutions that would simply be better. Rather than addressing the root core of the problem (
where the feeling of wanting to die comes from), you're suggesting simply killing the person off, because obviously there is no
other way out for them. This is the line of thinking that I'm criticizing. The government already takes shortcuts in improving mental health care, and legalizing euthanasia in this way will provide them with another, because they will agree with your argument that there's nothing to be done, that they can't do anything about it, and they should just kill the people who feel this way.
Rather than demanding our government be much more rigorous and take mentally ill people more seriously and treat them like
people, rather than addressing the things that actually make them this way systemically (racism, transphobia, abuse, you know the list, I could go on), legalizing this will not only do what Ray Trace said and put more burden onto doctors (who often aren't trained properly for euthanasia, by the way), but it will relieve the pressure that we're trying to place on the government to actually make things better for people in a meaningful way by allowing them that chance to say, "Well, there's nothing
we can do about it." That's why I'm opposed to legalizing the euthanasia in any situation other than terminal illness.
Basically: I think we're disagreeing that there are situations in which there's nothing to be done about how bad life is. You think that there are times when the depression is simply too bad and nothing can be fixed, and I disagree with this. That's why we keep going back and forth on this. I think there are always other things that the government could be doing that they are simply not right now.