My seemingly endless Lonelines

yoshiking14x

yoshiking14x

Retired
Why am I like this?
When I was younger, every kid I met end up rejecting me, even when I was not provoking anyone on purpose. No one played with me and were ridiculously mean like not letting me join them and when I wanted to do something myself, kids bothered me too.
“No!” “You are weird” are the most heard insults.
At middle school I tried different personalities such as the class clown, the smart one, the cool sidekick(didn't last long), being myself who is a attempt to be the nicest as possible. But everyone abused me or ignored me. This is the same with the rest of my High School Years. It was obvious that they didn't like me. My bags for Valentine candy or cards were mostly from my teachers or from students who where forced to give me.

Even today I am patronized or ignored. I am always at the bottom of the pecking line, not that I want to bother somebody.

This is another reason I came here, just to stop my isolation.


Has anyone experienced this?
 
Everyday of my entire school life until a tornado destroyed my school my senior year. I kind of gotten used to it and made it a norm for me. Just like as a coping method.

But yeah I always felt isolated everywhere irl, but rarely online.
 
memories of always being last to be picked in any team in pe haunt my nightmares. also, i was always isolated when people were allowed to pick their own groups. of course i became disdainful of others my age even though i think it's just because i'm very socially awkward and i haven't adapted any social skills, plus i'm very shy and judgmental of myself.

but when community college rolled around, people were a lot nicer and mature, and i can hold conversations with them pretty well. the experience is overall more pleasant...in fact, i've met people who talked less than me when it comes to forcing others in a class to start a conversation.

you're not the only one who was alone in his life. don't let the feeling of loneliness overcome you, i'm absolutely certain there's someone in this world who would want to accept you and talk to you.
 
Is there someone who looks up to you?

I don't know what's making them reject me. It looks like I have a invisible offensive sign that somehow everyone can see. I seem to look normal.

I also get nightmares of my ex-bullies coming back to abuse me.

Now I became socially awkward because of this and this wards off any potential friend.

This is not the first time this bothers me, sometimes my mind revives this.

Oops, I typed too late. But thanks for the advice.
 
I am hated by my the entirity of my grade, it seems, except for my close friends. I'm being serious, too. I'm one to often get stares and whispers and rumours and whatnot. It may not seem that bad, until you realize what they're whispering about. Like one girl said that "she'd murder me to get me to stop switching moods all the time", and everyone around her agreed (like 15 people). Like, excuse me for having little to no control over them. She also stated many other things about my clothes, hair, hands... There are some days where I've cried myself to sleep. It's only been 2 fucking months. I'm also rumoured to be a whore, and love every guy I sit remotely close to. Like, I'm not in love with the guy who recently beat me up, he just happens to be sitting near me while I played Smash Bros.
The main whispers aren't about people wanting to kill me, but they're nastier than average whispers. I'm figuring out how to make it stop. Lately, half of them have been seemingly getting nicer, but they are still kinda on the average whispering side. A quarter of them are beginning to be like the half, and the other quarter is the same it's always been.
There are 5 people that hate me more than anyone else, and I've grown to be anti-social and stay in my room all the time. I can't keep solid social media that they follow me in, I end up deleting the accounts or sending them into inactivity.

The people here on the boards are really friendly, like me and not like me. Here, I've had the most solid conversations that I've had in a long time, you all make me smile, and are the light side to what awaits me outside my door. I've grown attached to many, if not all, good users. You guys just always seem to be there for me...
The many positive moments these past two years have come from many conversations I have had with you. And for that, I thank you. :)
 
i used to be pretty lonely

but then i tried understand others viewpoints and chaning the way i live.

Although this after school though, and after many years i really have no reason to be lonely.

Great family, church family, and good friends on here made a pretty big difference.

Dunno if anyone looks up to me though, the closest it got was a kid from church named Jay said i was pretty awesome.

But i dunno if thats really him looking up to me though.
 
Stargazing, how come you don't talk to an adult or a counselor over how you feel or if you get suspicion that others are bullying you?
 
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Stargazing, how come you don't talk to an adult or a counselor over how you feel or if you get suspicion that others are bullying you?
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Fear probably, a lot of people that get bullied are afraid of those people finding out and making it even worse or possibly even more violent.

I know that's what i thought when i got bullied by an entire school anyway.
 
I remember my twin and I got harassed by idiots..like I think almost sexually harassed by them (they drew pictures of two girls naked; they claim it isn't us but we were suspicious). I told the teacher or something and they ended up getting suspended, changed class, and they stopped bothering us.
 
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I remember my twin and I got harassed by idiots..like I think almost sexually harassed by them (they drew pictures of two girls naked; they claim it isn't us but we were suspicious). I told the teacher or something and they ended up getting suspended, changed class, and they stopped bothering us.
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Well i know its better to inform people but not all schools care enough to do anything, but hers might. She just needs to build up the willpower to do so an see what happens.

That or fight back.
 
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Stargazing, how come you don't talk to an adult or a counselor over how you feel or if you get suspicion that others are bullying you?
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The fact that three-quarters of the people are just about stopping is a great improvement from June, I would say, so since they're showing main signs, I'll just say a bunch of sentences and words and they'll leave me alone after about a day or so, I would say. I'm getting information on getting the specific 5 to stop, since they seem to be the hardcore ones and it will probably take more than a bunch of sentences to get them to stop. If they don't, then whatever, they're going to a different high school anyways (they're the jock kids, so they're off to the special sporting school), and everyone will just leave them be.

Watch everything fail miserbally, since I'll just lose my wording. I'm just so fucking scared about my grade, a lot of them are taller and heavier than my frame, and they may resort to something they are feared for...
So, I have this nice senario planned in my head (above) and it may not go as planned because they're so unpredicable...

I am the worst when it comes to talking to teachers and parents and councillers, so that's out.