The Sims 4
I've heard about its reputation yes, how Sims 3 fans say it's a lot worse than Sims 4, has a middling Metacritic average at launch and its monetization scheme by siphoning off a lot of content into expensive expansion and stuff packs (there's too many of that to count and the total price of everything and I mean everything sets people back 100+ dollars I mean Jesus Christ
Game's not worth 700+ dollars for the entire thing. It's just not, no matter how much anyone likes it. The expansion packs...forty dollars for Eco Lifestyle...really? It doesn't change the game THAT much.
However, all things aside, this being my first Sims game I ever played, I absolutely adore it, it's easily in my Top 10 list of all-time favorite games. I enjoy spending a huge amount of time in Create-A-Sim, making human versions of my characters as well as Simifying a whole lot of others, as the Sim creator is very well done and extremely user friendly to boot, and it's one of the few things people agree that the Sims 4 does much better than the previous Sims games, thanks to its pull mechanic to adjust face shapes. You can make beautiful humans or you can make intentionally hilariously ugly Sims.
The game itself is surprisingly deep and complex, and more expansions do add a bunch to the experience. There's a bunch of ways you can play the game, either through playing it legit or just CTRL + C -> testingcheats enabled and go crazy with what you can do with console commands. It's sandboxy as well, and how you tell a story is entirely up to you (you can follow what YOU want or you can follow your Sims whims or you can just mess around or you can just try to kill them or you can be sadistic and make everyone hate you or you can torture them in a lot of hilarious ways...gosh there's a lot you can do for your digital humans), and I adore the amount of freedom I get, as there's no "wrong" choice, no "wrong" way to play the game, and nothing you do is inherently bad, as there's no "lose" state in the game. And if you don't place as well as, in, say, social events or if you fail flirting with the girl of your life, the game doesn't make a big deal out of it (the game even has hilarious flavor text when you have a positive romance relationship but a negative friend one).
I love the general flavor text of the game, btw. It never takes itself too seriously, and it's always charming to read through any of it. Even something mundane like patchnotes are a joy to read through.
Build Mode is also very well made and extremely easy to understand, and it's also very in-depth, with a lot of hotkey controls you can do such as disable grid snapping or placing couches on walls. You can make a regular house or a crazy, intentionally hideous one.
Did I forget to mention that the Sims was always pro-LGBT+ and highly progressive? It introduced proper gay marriage way before it was legalized in the US, and gay marriage used to be an unintentional feature that the devs actually decided to keep? Gender expression is also handled aptly (though I wish females had access to facial hair option by default), where you can practically make any gendered character you want, the options for them is called "being able to use the bathroom standing or not" or you can change their ability on how they impregnate, whether they can be pregnant or if they can impregnate other people. Plus, you can change their gender any time you like through Create a Sim (or mods).
And yes the mod support. It's
massive. There's a bunch of must-have mods such as MC Command Center (which is a general cheating utility that you can play a lot around with) or Slice of Life or Meaningful Stories or violent sadistic torture mods that give you the option to brutally kill Sims or much more quality of life improvements you can do. And yes, plenty of Create a Sim and Build Mode modes that you can actually expand the amount of furniture or Create a Sim items (such as hair and clothing) you have rather than replace anything, giving you so much more options to play around with.
S'yeah. I love it, despite all of its flaws. I haven't even scratched the surface with this post on how much I appreciate the overall game and the vast slew of options and stuff you can do in it.