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Perhaps due to my abuse by gaslighting, I been having so many nightmares about this, I am asking to lessen the weight on my shoulders

Don't know the full details, but you should at least try to tell them why what they did was wrong, or direct them to someone who can explain it if you don't feel like you can. You should also listen to their side of it, but I guess whether you believe them or not is based on your judge of their character. More often than not, doing something wrong comes from misinformation or outlash, so there is a possibility of an underlying problem. They may also not want to talk about the issue, in which case, don't force them; just offer guidance if you can and they'll talk when they're ready.

Conversely, and accounting for everything because no details are known, try to keep an open mind. It is also possible you are in the wrong instead. Try to find the best possible compromise.

tbh its almost impossible to give good advice in this situation because based off the information provided its impossible to tell if the person actually did something wrong or not as you've not provided any kind of description as to what the person in question has done

It's based on my constant nightmares I have, in the past this constantly happened to me, I am never given a chance to explain myself to either friends or family, I simply don't know what to do, in a group, I was ganged up for any mistake, I have a really deep fear of yelling, when I tried to tell that, I was shut down and continued to be beat down